A first-ever gay swayamwar on Indian television? Shiver!

Poulomi Ghosh
Poulomi GhoshSep 11, 2018 | 16:16

A first-ever gay swayamwar on Indian television? Shiver!

Aren’t we supposed to celebrate inclusiveness?

What was absolutely unnecessary to celebrate the Supreme Court judgment of striking down Section 377 has just happened. A few reports have surfaced on how a first-ever gay swayamwar show on Indian television is being planned following the verdict.

Many may find the concept ‘coming of age’ and may label any criticism ‘puritan’, but truly, the proposition has nothing hopeful in it, given our previous encounters with fictional gay characters, pathetically portrayed by Indian television, under the garb of ‘being progressive’.

maddy-inside_0911180_091118043145.jpgLong before we became woke, we all have laughed at Maddy. (Screenshot: Courtesy Sony)

So, here are a few things Indian television taught us about gays.

  1. They are effeminate, which provides comic relief to the more important things going on around them. Remember Maddy in Jassi Jaisi Koi Nahi.
  2. They must be part of a heterosexual love triangle. Refer to the storyline of Pyaar Kii Yeh Ek Kahani.
  3. A gay character has to be a fashion designer (Maddy). Otherwise, he will have to be a rich, handsome businessman, with many female admirers around him, so that his coming out of the closet moment can be dragged out for episodes, with delicious amounts of shock and surprise.
  4. The actors essaying gay characters must mention in their interviews that they are straight in real life. 

maryada_091118035404.jpgPeople loved Maryada...Lekin Kab Tak? (Photo from Twitter) but there were many sub-plots to divert the attention (Photo: Twitter)

There are exceptions, but not on television; as the fear of losing the saas-bahu audience looms large. So, there have been somewhat ‘coming of age’ experiments on digital platforms.

But nothing to warrant a ‘gay swayamwar’ on television, so soon after the verdict.

The intention is quite clear.

Do you really want to find a partner? Or, do you just want to capitalise on the present mood, to ride on the TRP charts?

If you really want to find a partner, then go over the precedents already set by the heterosexual people, who became — or tried to become — famous through the swayamwar circuit.

In the first season of the wedding show, which was in 2009, (the show unfortunately had three seasons), Rakhi Sawant selected Elesh Parujanwala, a Canadian businessman, for marriage. But, on the day of the finale, Rakhi Sawant changed her mind and instead of getting married, the duo got engaged. Finally, they never got married.

Season 2, 2010, was titled Rahul Dulhaniya Le Jayega, as Rahul Mahajan was looking for a bride and managed to find one in model Dimpi Ganguly. The duo got married on the show — and got divorced after five years.

rahul-dimpi_091118035208.jpgEven if their marriage had worked, the idea of keeping heavily decked-up prospective brides on tenterhooks for TRP is so 1450s! (Photo: India Today)

Season 3, 2011 (no one remembers this for legit reasons) featured actress Ratan Rajput who got engaged to some Abhinav Sharma. But later, they did not marry, apparently because their horoscopes did not match.


So yes, this reality show shaadi has never been a potent platform to find a partner, unless you want to reassert all the stereotypes of multiple gay partners instead.

Had all these reality show relationships worked in real life, then too, the idea of a gay swayamwar would have remained equally frightening.

Aren’t we supposed to celebrate inclusiveness?

But is this how we celebrate inclusiveness? By offering gays (forget L, B, T and Q, of course) a regressive television space and making them believe that this is a rainbow moment as they can now look for a partner on Indian television?

I don't think so.

Last updated: September 11, 2018 | 16:32
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